Monday, April 13, 2009
(Kim Jung) Ill Communication
I was able to Skype with my folks today and they had asked me a little bit about North Korea. If you are like me, you are always wondering how much information the American media is actually giving on certain issues. I would love to sit here and write an articulate account of South Korean views towards the Norths testing of a long range missile. This would be incredibly hard to do though. There are the obvious issues of language barriers between me and the South Korean friends and coworkers I get to talk to and I also believe there is a frustration with the whole North South situation that is not often talked about.
The other day I was riding in a car with a man from my school. I asked him about the North Korean missile test and what he thought about it. He is a smart man, but his English is limited. He was able to communicate to me that the missile test upset him. There seemed to be a frustration in his voice about the state of Korean affairs. He mentioned how China, Japan, Russia and America all had a role to play in negotiating with the North, but I could tell he felt like the context of the whole situation was wrong. He clearly does not care for Kim Jung Il, but there was a deep love and respect for the people of North Korea. When I asked him how he felt about the people from North Korea he said "North Korean people and South Korean people are one family." I asked him him if he wanted a reunification of the North and South and he looked at me very seriously and said, "I very very want!" This made me wonder what the response to the North would be from people who see North Korea as part of their family.
This conversation obviously does not do much in the way of helping to find a solution to the rising tensions with North Korea, but I think it does provide some context for any of you who hear North Korea mentioned in the news. Most Koreans believe that an artificial line was drawn in the sand 60 years ago and they have deep deep wishes for that line to be erased. The interesting thing I took away from this conversation was his ability to separate his feelings from the North Korean state and the North Korean people. It reminded my of my trip to Nicaragua while Bush was president. I had a number of different conversations with people who did not like "America", but loved Americans. They disagreed with American foreign policy, yet they warmly embraced me as an American.
There are times where it is easy to think of a government and a people as one entity. Especially coming from a country that is supposed to be "by the people and for the people". I was encouraged by my conversation with my friend. It reminded me that there is a longing for reunification within all of us. It also made me wonder what a foreign policy would look like if we all had the sense that people on the other side of "the line" are part of our family.
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Hiking Pictures from Saturday Pt. 1
Thursday, March 12, 2009
My first political endorsement

Thursday finally rolled around and that meant it was time for the campaign speeches. Each student was given 3 minutes to address the entire student body. I would have loved to have understood what they were saying, but I was able to read the audiences responses to what they were saying and that was great. My girl went last and at this point I was actually rooting for her, after all she had the best poster. She walked up to the podium, but instead of digging right into her talking points like everyone else, she decided to show the school that, if elected, she would be a servant leader. She got on her knees and gave a very slow deep bow to the crowd, a move that clearly impressed. When she did step up to the microphone she spoke with unbelievable charisma. I am sure she was talking about some of the intricacies of her energy policy and her revolutionary idea to play K-pop over the loudspeakers in between classes, but what impressed me most was what came next. She turned over campaign poster and revealed the reason that I knew I had sided with the right candidate.
Here is what the other side of her poster looked like.
With the Oprah-esque endorsement, the Obama endorsement and the clear superior speech, I knew she would win. The speeches had ended and it was time to head to the polls.
I left the gym and headed to my office to prepare a lesson and wait for the results to roll in. The final result...
...was an outrage.
The one boy beat the two girls. I am currently filling shenanigans with the administration office. I believe there was voter suppression and voter fraud. I cannot prove it yet but, I want a re-count.
Meetings
Here is a picture of the gym.

After my sports meeting I had a men's meeting. The men's meeting was held after school at a restaurant 10 minutes from school. 11 other men and I sat down at a typical Korean style restaurant and ordered some food. We had Duck Bulgolgi and a wide variety of side dishes. Shortly after we sat down the bottles started popping and the makeju and soju started flowing. I am not sure that men bond so much differently on the other side of the "large pond", but men here do it with a zeal I have never seen before. There was the traditional ceremonial ways in which the alcohol was served by one man to another, but all in all it just loosened everyone up to get to know there co-workers better. I love the family style nature to the meals. There were 3 table grills for the 12 of us and at any given time you would have 3 to 6 men stirring the food or digging into the duck with their chopsticks. After about 3 hours of eating, drinking , and camaraderie we moved the meeting from the restaurant to a HOF. HOF's are bars were you have to order Anju (drink snacks) in addition to your drinks. After another hour and a half at the HOF I decided it would be best to leave everyone at the HOF and make my way to the subway (I have no idea what time everything actually ended). The next morning was great, there was a definite bond that had been built between myself and the other men. We smiled at each other a little wider and were a little freer in the way we try to communicate. Both meetings were effective in their aims. The Korean people are very communal and they structure their lives in ways that foster deep relationships with the people they work with. I have worked with good friends before, but I have never seen a workplace that is so intentional and inclusive in the way that it trys to bring people together.
대 신 Daesin Elementary
The view from my office.
Another view from my office.
Monday, March 2, 2009
A Few Things I've Learned So Far
1. Largie - When in doubt add an "ie" to the end of an English word to make it Korean. This is similar to what many of us do to make something spanish by adding an "o". So, instead of a size Large, it becomes size Largie. Orange becomes Orangie and so on. This has greatly helped my communication.
2. Bery Largie - For those of you wondering why I said Large instead of Medium, it is because that is the size I wear over here. That's right, in Korea, I am a large man. I have a friend here that weighs just over 200 lbs and is 6'1 and is hard pressed to find anything that fits him. I have lucked out in shoes since I happen to be a 280. This is the largest size most stores carry (10.5 US). HoweverI am also a size 45 depending on what shoe I pick up. In coats I am either a Largie, 100, or 48. So much for standardization. Good news is, most of the clothes are inexpensive.
3. Bring your Tech 9 - Korea is a very safe country with a low crime rate, so you don't need a semi automatic tech 9, but you will need to bring your technologically advanced 9 year old. Yesterday all of the new teachers were introduced to the school through the morning video announcments. I was waiting in line to be announced, looking into the room where the principal was being filmed. All I could see was the principal and one of the monitors that showed the live shot. As each new teacher was introduced the line got shorter and I made it closer to the control room. When I finally made it into the control room I expected to see a couple of grown men on some sort of AV team. Instead, I saw about five 3rd and 4th graders in front of cameras and editing equipment. They all got big smiles as they turned and waved at me. I could not help but think that America has lost any sort of technology war that may be fought in the future. Everything is wired here (except for our apartment). Cell phones work in subways (unlike New York), Doughnut shops have electronic sliding glass doors, and they let their children use equipment we would be too afraid they would break in the U.S.
Soju is a social lubricant - People like to drink in Korea. I have had a few converstions with people who say they don't like to drink. Right after that they will tell me they "just like to have some beer or wine with firends." I went out for lunch yesterday with the Principal, Vice Principal and some of the teachers. After everyone had sat down, the principal started walking around the room and pouring everyone some alcohol (not sure what it was, but it was delicious). At one point, one teacher said she did not drink, so he said he would only give her a little bit. Halfway through the meal the V.P. made the rounds filling everyones glass. Now I know that there are a number of buisness people that will have a cocktail at their lunch hour or during a business meeting, but this is the first time I have heard of people drinking at lunch before they go back to the second half of thier day to work with children. Soju is the alcohal of choice, it is a vodka like grain alcohal that is unbelievably cheap. Makeju is their word for beer and would be the 2nd runner up to soju. Here is why it is so importnant. The Korean people I have met seem to be pretty shy, but once you start having a glass of something with them they quikly open up.
I think I am supposed to do something now so I will have to continue this later. Much peace.













